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By shashaaa
on September 21 2010 at 7:01 pm
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47, Female
Whateverville
MI, United States
Member Since: February 16 2008
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Hi everyone,
Just wanted to drop a little note here. Things have been going pretty good in my world.
There have been a few times when I have had some fleeting thoughts about smoking.
Maybe because I am having some emotional things that I have to work though.
Thank God they are just fleeting thoughts that are gone pretty quick.
Bottom line I do not want to start over today. Good days n bad ,,,, Just don't smoke!!
I have been a little sad one of my dear friends believes that I have betrayed her trust.
I did not do this and nor would I ever. Being falsely accused of this betrayal is hard for me at this time.
As long as I do not pick up, I will not make the situation worse. Glad you all have taught me so much.
Now i just need to practice using what I have been taught. No matter how bad it may feel at times just don't pick up. It would not fix change or solve any problem for me today!! Hugss to all  God Bless!
Today is a good day to just say No
Serenity is peace within the storm.
Keep On Keepin On ~!!! Shashaaa aka Tricia Smober date ,,, 2/14/2008 ~ Will be Grr**8
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Message by laughinglady
on September 21 2010 at 8:37 pm
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so very good to see you! And man can I relate..I was falsly accused of betrayal in the start of this year by a sect of people that I considered friends and "family"!! They never got over it and apparently never figured out the truth but I have learned important is that I know what was real. Plus people who really know me knew the truth and that gave me strength..So hang in there and hold tight to your truth..Your true friends "know" you...Come see us more often you are missed!
"Duc, sequere and de via decede" ~ Lead, follow or get out of the way!!
~Never Give Up~
5/7/09
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Message by ltlsqueak
on September 21 2010 at 9:49 pm
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So nice of you to stop by. I hope things work out for you! Stay strong and come see us more often. 
Sherri
Quit date: March 22, 2010
Nothing worth having in life is ever easy.
BELIEVE in yourself!
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Message by Earlz
on September 21 2010 at 10:43 pm
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Your 100% right smoking would fix nothing and could definitely make things a lot worst, your doing great keep that quit going
Protect the Children
Quit Date 11/19/2000
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Message by Rantonen
on September 21 2010 at 11:08 pm
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Hi there,
I too, kinda recently had the same situation where someone whom I love and care about thought I betrayed their trust and just stopped all communication. I didn't learn that she thought I betrayed her for a while, heard it thru the grapevine, and like you, did not, nor would I ever betray anyone's trust, let alone a dear friend. Gotta tell ya, it hurts to the core! But I am sure you found that out yourself! Sorry you had to go thru such a thing. It really sucks!
One thing about me, and I know you don't know me, as I am rather new here, is that I am a very loyal friend and what people tell me, never escapes my lips. Even if I didn't really like the person, I would not betray a trust, as I see that if someone has that trust in me, it is like a special gift given to me and that it is to be cherished...Secondly, if I tell person 'A' about person 'B', I look really bad, and not too many people would trust me in the long run after that.
Wow, guess that my experience with that is still bothering me deep inside, as I didn't intend to write this much about it...lol
But smoking would changing things!! It would make you feel worse!! Plus non-smokers can handle stress (and to me this is a stressful situation) much much better than smokers. And if you were to light up, you would be betraying yourself......
So, 'just for today' don't fall back into the smoking trap!
All the best, and may I have such success with quitting as you have had!
-Rantonen
Quit Date: Oct. 23, 2010
You can't change yesterday, only today-so make it count. Love is the healing balm, for those of us who have experienced addiction.
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Message by betsy
on September 22 2010 at 8:34 am
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always good to see you Trisha
you are right...nothing is worth using over
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betsy QD 11/10/03
Today is the best day to not smoke!
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Message by Gigi72
on September 22 2010 at 8:58 am
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great to see you!
The truth will come out, have faith.
And u are so right, smoking doesn't help a damn thing, only makes things worse
Gigi 72
QD: August 25th, 2010
#12 forever xo
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Message by mroxanne
on September 22 2010 at 8:59 am
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Glad things are going good with the quit. Too bad about the friend hopefully things will work our soon.
Roxanne
Quit March 1, 2010
Commit to the Quit one day at a time.
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Message by Lucky
on September 22 2010 at 6:47 pm
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Remember NOPE.
I hope you resolve your issue with your friend, Happy Wednesday, MARIA
Nicotine free since February 2001
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