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By schatzy  on July 04 2012 at 9:33 am

48, Female
FL, United States
Member Since: July 27 2008


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Happy Fourth of July

Wednesday, July 04, 2012

Today is Independence day for us.

Last year at his time we thought our world was ending. Maybe that is a bit extreme, especially looking back, but last year I was at work in a kitchen I helped open. I mean hard hats while looking at places to put things.

Anyway, I worked there for 11 years, and at the sister company an additional two years. My husband worked with us for eight years. and a total for the company 19 years. Yes, that's a lot of sweat and tears.

So, on the fourth of 2011, my husband was let go from our supposed secure job. It was a terrible ordeal. I don't know how I did it, but I managed to stay until October before I had enough.

It was the same senario I now see all over. We have been there a long time, we both had good salaries. Rather high for Florida.

I remember that day like yesterday. We were so upset and miserable. I had to leave that day too. We tried to go bike riding, we tried all sorts of things for distraction, but it was useless. What was going to happen We didn't even realize there were absolutely no jobs in our expertise out there. NONE!

To make this very long story short. January 2012, we made a break. We opened our own company, J & H Junk Removal, LLC. and Handyman service. We bought a trailer, and a few cards and signs and we were off.

The good thing, we joined our Chamber of Commerce. The best move we ever made. It brought us confidence, we met so many people, and still are. We started bursting out of our shell. I went from chained to a kitchen for years with people that only pretended to like me, some I actually thought were friends, ha, ha, ha. You can find out who your true friends are when something bad happens. Funny, only two from the whole company are my friends, one had already left and the other got let go Christmas. Neither worked in my department. Nice.

One year later, Joe and I have a wonderful little puppy, almost dog, who makes us very happy. Love you Brutus. We have our own company. We get to go out and socialize. We have a bunch of new friends who I believe are genuine.

Our business is now picking up. We have people to ask questions when we are confused. And Today we took the day off, and are celebrating our Freedom. What seemed to be the worst thing ever a year ago, turned out to be the best. We are happy.

Don't get me wrong, there are times it's a struggle financially, but we are hanging in. Patience, my Joe always says, and with patience and perserverance, we are coming through.

Happy Independence Day Everyone.
Hugs heidi

And of course the whole termoil of 2011 came and went smoke free. !!!!!!


Lots of hugs
Heidi 

Message by skipper8  View Journal on July 04 2012 at 9:51 am 
Location: Canada   Joined: July 02 2002   Posts: 12338   View skipper8's ProfileProfile Search for other entries by skipper8Search Quote skipper8Quote
This is truly a post that celebrates your freedom and independence :))

Happy for you both !!

~~The time is always right , to do what is right ~~ KTQ ~~Kathy

QD- 21-11-11 :)

Message by joules  View Journal on July 04 2012 at 10:05 am 
Location: Canada   Joined: February 06 2007   Posts: 2080   View joules's ProfileProfile Search for other entries by joulesSearch Quote joulesQuote
 You will do well because you have a good positive attitude, a good framework for business and a good support system......  Good luck
"Never leave another quitter behind" borrowed from BTBasser to whom I owe such a large part of my quit............quit date February 14th 2007

Message by betsy  View Journal on July 04 2012 at 11:39 am 
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Happy Independence day to you and Joe!

betsy QD 11/10/03
Today is the best day to not smoke!

Message by Babs  View Journal on July 04 2012 at 1:02 pm 
Location: United States   Joined: November 16 2006   Posts: 10171   View Babs's ProfileProfile Search for other entries by BabsSearch Quote BabsQuote
Well this story had a good ending. So happy for y'all. Have a great day Heidi.
Not One Puff Ever and
Keep a Sense of Humor.
Babs ~ 9/15/06


Message by peter d  View Journal on July 04 2012 at 7:57 pm 
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I know you and Joe are the kind that won't give up
I know you will persevere, until you have won
I send good thoughts and prayers always
that you win this fight ...
God's blessings on you both


quit date--Dec 26, 2007
hold on tight to your dream,,,,

Message by antc04  View Journal on August 13 2012 at 9:07 am 
Location: United States   Joined: August 08 2012   Posts: 635   View antc04's ProfileProfile Search for other entries by antc04Search Quote antc04Quote
RYN- thanks for the great suggestions! I wanted to adopt 2 more kittens but I already have a 12 year old cat who might not adjust well to new friends. We lost her dear brother last year. I have a small house so more pets might not be possible right now. BUT great idea! I wish I could. Puppies are probably a no go as I love animals including dogs but owning a dog isn't for me. I am a die-hard cat person so i would go with that.

I LOVE kayaking and have a few friend who do too so renting a kayak is a possibility. I don't have a bike anymore but would love to buy one when I save up some money. I miss bike riding terribly.

Thanks for all the wonderful suggestions!

I live on long island, NY so there is tons of great nature including little lakes and awesome beaches to go to here. I do photography as a hobby so maybe I'll dedicate some extra time to that and get some of my photos printed out to put in an album. I mostly photograph nature, landscapes and animals.

Message by antc04  View Journal on August 13 2012 at 2:39 pm 
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RYN- I'm still jealous that you have dolphins near you! I want dolphins here! But I know the water is too cold for them here. NY is too cold for a lot of people and animals!
I always wanted to visit Florida not just Disney World cause even though I never got there I might have out grown some of that already LOL!  Though not all of it is just for kids supposedly.

BUT I REALLY want to go to the Florida Keys! That is the part of Florida I always dreamed of visiting! I really want to swim with the dolphins there! My aunt did it and she said it was awesome. But I would have to sign up for that as soon as I plan my trip cause the amount of people that can do it per day is limited. Plus I need to remember -actually now reasearch -which Key it is that they do that off it. It isn't all of them. I don't think it is key West though I want to go there too! There is this travel section in the newpaper on Sundays and it was once all about the keys and what to do on each key as they all have something different and special about them. Though I am sure many other places in FL are great, this has been the one place I really want to visit. I am a total animal lover and as far as sea animals go, dolphins are my favorite! I want to swim with them so bad! Maybe sometimes if I saved enough money and get a freakin job which is really hard to do here right now, I can save some non smoking money and do that.

Are you in or near Southern Florida? I heard it is really nice in FT Lauderdale and Miami. I heard Orlando gets cold in the winter. My friends and I were going to go to Disney some years back for New years and it was like 35 degrees in Orlando at night! I was like-  really? I thought FL was warm? NOT all of it apparently.

But I know the Keys are always warm!
Sorry, apparently I am fixated on the Florida Keys and the dolphins for some reason!

Its good to have dreams, right?!

Message by antc04  View Journal on August 14 2012 at 9:18 am 
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RYN- Thank you for your encouragement.
I really do believe in the power of prayer! I am so glad things worked out for you!
Holly was right- the best way thing I can do is "Let go (of my nervousness) and let GOD" If it is meant to be that I get this job I will. If I don't get it then it wasn't meant to be and there is something better out there for me!

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