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By Earlz  on May 20 2011 at 8:37 pm

66, Male
NJ, United States
Member Since: July 16 2002


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10 years 6 months and a day smoke free, in the beginning I was not sure I could quit. I had tried so many times before and never made it past a couple of hours. When I found the Quit Smoking Diaries aka QSD I was actually looking for cheap on line cigarettes. I had always told myself that if I could quit for 72 hours that I would NEVER smoke again

Quitting was tough but I had a lot of help in the beginning there was Lindy, shortly there after Emma3 and I became quit buddies and after a few months I became good friends with Suzy Q and then Skipper8 having on line friends others who knew how tough it can be really helped . Being a member of an on line support group really helped

I date a wonderful lady and usually spend a few days a week with her she smokes and her two daughters both smoke some times I find myself junkie thinking coming up with off the wall reasons why it would be okay to light up again and then I remember that I made that pledge to myself and anyone else that would listen to NEVER smoke again, that pledge has helped me numerous times over the last 10 years.

Skipper8 said it in her entry on 5/18 if you can not commit 100% to the process of quitting and staying quit you are going to have a hard time quitting and then maintaining a quit..

Many times Vlinder aka Elenor said “Quitting is a Process not an Event and no words could be truer. If you commit to quitting and don’t give up on yourself you should be able to quit and maintain a smoke free life

I am not going to go on and on I will say this their is no reason that is not good enough to strengthen your resolve to make and maintain a quit and their is no reason that’s good enough to make your smoking again okay. If you give up a long quit you did not slip you choose to smoke again, smoking in of itself is not a character barometer good people and not so good people smoke.

Quit for yourself for your family for your friends and give yourself an opportunity to live a longer and healthier life


Protect the Children
Quit Date 11/19/2000

 

Message by ChinHi  View Journal on May 20 2011 at 11:50 pm 
Location: United States   Joined: July 06 2002   Posts: 25421   View ChinHi's ProfileProfile Search for other entries by ChinHiSearch Quote ChinHiQuote
here here !      congrats on your stats and thanks for sharing.



KCL = Keep Choosin' LIFE
"Never leave another quitter behind" by BTBASSER
Namaste
Mahalo Karyn and lindy our SHEROs
7/25/01

Message by hollyo  View Journal on May 20 2011 at 11:58 pm 
Location: United States   Joined: December 08 2010   Posts: 3404   View hollyo's ProfileProfile Search for other entries by hollyoSearch Quote hollyoQuote
Make a vow.  A vow for today and for a lifetime.
hollyo
quit date 12/10/10
One Day @ a time
relapsed; 11-12-11
New quit date 1/10/12
Relapsed April 20, 2013

Message by syscokid  View Journal on May 21 2011 at 2:07 am 
Location: United States   Joined: August 05 2002   Posts: 2683   View syscokid's ProfileProfile Search for other entries by syscokidSearch Quote syscokidQuote

Great advice from a great person. I thank you for all you have done to keep this community alive and kickin. Quitting is a process and for some it takes longer than others. I am just happy that I made it and this place helped make it possible - thanks and congrats on 10 1/2 years.
 


Dave

Quit chewing 08-31-10 and quit smoking 11-30-05

Message by ltlsqueak  View Journal on May 21 2011 at 1:40 pm 
Location: United States   Joined: March 19 2010   Posts: 4100   View ltlsqueak's ProfileProfile Search for other entries by ltlsqueakSearch Quote ltlsqueakQuote
Off to VC for me!  You have so much to be proud of! 

Thank you for giving us a place where we can help one another fight off this awful demon!  I never thought an online support group could make such a difference. 

 You have touched so many lives! 

We are all friends and I'm sure I wouldn't be alive today if I hadn't found this site and all the wonderful people here!  I will always be eternally grateful!  (((hugs)))




Sherri

Quit date: March 22, 2010

Nothing worth having in life is ever easy.

BELIEVE in yourself!

Message by Vicki  View Journal on May 21 2011 at 2:00 pm 
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NOPE.  My significant other is a smoker too.  There have been times that sneaky little thought pops in my head also, especially when we are sitting out on the deck on a beautiful spring evening having a glass of wine.  But I have decided that I will not do it.  No way ever in this world do I want to go through the quitting process again.  NOPE!
Vicki
Quit July 15, 2007 10:30 AM

Message by mroxanne  View Journal on May 21 2011 at 5:32 pm 
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Excellent advice Earlz!
WONDERFUL STATS!
We have to commit 100% or it won't work.

Roxanne
Quit March 1, 2010
Commit to the Quit one day at a time.

Message by Charly  View Journal on May 21 2011 at 7:39 pm 
Location: United States   Joined: March 02 2003   Posts: 4472   View Charly's ProfileProfile Search for other entries by CharlySearch Quote CharlyQuote
You always have
wonderful advise!



Charlene

aka 4Health/MarksMom - QD 4-20-03 Smoking kills!          

Message by I'm done  View Journal on May 21 2011 at 9:30 pm 
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Nice stats and a great message you shared today.
The first two weeks of your quit will be the hardest thing you do in your life unless you must quit again. Not one puff! --Janet--

Message by skipper8  View Journal on May 22 2011 at 9:16 am 
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I believe both counts are correct - and whatever works for YOU , the individual , is what will be right for YOU..

Take care Earl......enjoy :)

~~The time is always right , to do what is right ~~ KTQ ~~Kathy

QD- 21-11-11 :)

Message by Missdaphne  View Journal on May 22 2011 at 6:45 pm 
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You have been part of my life for so long now.  I was only at QSJ for a year or so when you joined.  What a long way we have all come.  My only question is how is it that we don't LOOK any older?!!

"Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon." Don't know who said it first but I like it.

Message by skipper  View Journal on May 23 2011 at 12:09 am 
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Hey Earl.
I'm still pissed that you looked better than me in Michigan.
Wished I had thought of the wearing all black thing.
You looked really cool.
Congrats on the anniversary thing.
Skip

Message by Carla  View Journal on May 23 2011 at 8:49 pm 
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I must admit I do not come here often but when I do i enjoy seeing a post from you.. If I ever come here and see that you gave in to that junkie thinking remember I am in the same state as you and I will come looking for you and yes kick your butt.. no pun intended.
You forgot to mention the Bannanas? 
Great going Earl. Congrats to you on your years of freedom from this
CARLA (AKA MAMA)
May 14, 2002 Quit
This was my last quit!

Message by JuniaSE  View Journal on May 28 2011 at 11:19 am 
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Hi there Earlz
Thank you for your note. Agreed! :)
WONDERWOMAN - living in the moment <3
QD: 03/13/11 at 9pm
Totally Nicotinefree: 07/23/11 at 4.15pm

Message by Charry Lou  View Journal on June 24 2011 at 9:01 pm 
Location: United States   Joined: May 21 2009   Posts: 1156   View Charry Lou's ProfileProfile Search for other entries by Charry LouSearch Quote Charry LouQuote
Earl Z, am I right that you are our administrator?
It's what I recall and I am wondering if you can set up
a photobucket account for Quit Dates. I used to be
able to post pictures there and can't now. Also, your
latest entry tells me you want to settle in PA. That is
interesting to me -- as I live in northeast PA. I love your gardens
and your ability to set and reach goals. You are going for 35 lbs.
 I am going for 60 lbs. Let's keep in touch and help each other
keep going. Now I want to get a glider. You have one and so does
peter d.
with love, charry lou

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