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Repost # 3 : Fought and Lost ?? 
By m_ramesh31  on March 25 2010 at 9:09 am

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NO...i did not give up quitting...Its still going strong.... I am still cruising along pretty well.
I am back from a great Holiday and a tiringly long journey, finally united with my family and my little Kiddo!

'Fought and Lost' : I know its not a appropriate caption for my post! But i had just read a post from Angelica in which she describes that she lost the fight. My post is a response to her's.

I want to assure her..and all those who have relapsed and for those of you who are wary that you may lose the quit...that Nothing is Lost....Nothing really is lost.

Quitting is a WAR,.not a battle!
You may SLIP and light up a cigarrette; but thats just a small loss;.a small lost battle.
If you have lost this battle its ok...but do not lose the Lesson learned from this loss.
You still have the WAR to be won;You better focus on this ultimate war.

Dont make this small loss an excuse for losing the Ultimate war. Get ready for the next battle and most importantly WIN IT.

Quitting is a Process and not an Event. An Event happens in a giffy...in a moment...but a process is essentially time bound.
It takes time, patience and grit to Begin and sustain the quitting process. Just to let you know, that this process lasts for the rest of your life

Take up the quit, Be Strong, Keep winning and get ready for the mother of all battles... You have many miles to go! So do I.

-Ramesh
 


"Quit Date : 13-April-2007"
"Where no counsel is, the people fell, but in the multitude of counselors there is safety" 

Message by deelsch  View Journal on March 25 2010 at 9:24 am 
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I love that saying  "Quitting is a Process, not an Event "   I repeat that when I am having a bad day.   Good re-post thanks..
I can do it..... I know I can.

Deena

Message by sweetp  View Journal on March 25 2010 at 9:45 am 
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Hi Ramesh...

Good To See YOU....

Have a Beautiful day....Your enlightening Message will live on....!

Hugs Colleen
"Today I choose not to smoke..."


Message by peter d  View Journal on March 25 2010 at 11:12 am 
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Great--Great message
Yep--it is a process
and everyone's process is different

quit date--Dec 26, 2007
hold on tight to your dream,,,,

Message by 4Health  View Journal on March 25 2010 at 4:37 pm 
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Good message...


Charlene AKA MarksMom/Charly - Choose life on 4-20-03
Consult your Doctor or Health Care professional before beginning any new exercise or nutritional regime.

Message by Kat_fairykats  View Journal on March 25 2010 at 6:53 pm 
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Yes, my friend, "many miles to go" and I'm so thankful we are on this journey together. I am so glad you decided to repost a few of your entries...I am sure many people are reading and getting what they need, whether or not they leave you a message.

But you know me--I never could keep my mouth shut LOL

((((((((Ramesh)))))))))

"When you quit, your forevers will come to you."

Message by laughinglady  View Journal on March 25 2010 at 7:28 pm 
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This post perfectly describes my quit..and the winning factor was I never  ever gave up on the ultimate prize..my freedom...this is a wonderful message and deserves to be in VC...


Message by ChinHi  View Journal on March 26 2010 at 4:38 pm 
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very well said, thanks so much for sharing .     



KCL = Keep Choosin' LIFE
"Never leave another quitter behind" by BTBASSER
Namaste
Mahalo Karyn and lindy our SHEROs
7/25/01

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