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Six Dimes 
By Gandalf  on February 20 2008 at 1:28 pm

62, Male
Houston
TX, United States
Member Since: August 02 2002


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I was talking to a slightly younger friend last week and he said he was hitting ‘Double Nickels’ this year.  As you can see, my page has my updated age as of last Friday – I am now ‘Six Dimes’.  And today my quit date has hit 64 months or 5 1/3 years.  I wish there was a way to increase the quit time without increasing the age, but that is not to be.  But for sure the longer you stay quit the longer you can celebrate birthdays.

 

On the upside I had to renew my driver’s license.  And now for the first time in 20 something years I do not have to wear glasses or contacts to drive my car!  On the other hand I can’t see the dashboard too well so I might run out of gas, but I don’t have that restriction.

 

I didn’t want any sort of big birthday party for my sixtieth– we don’t seem to have time for that these days.  What I asked for and received were tickets to the Puccini opera La Boheme.  The Houston Opera will be performing this in mid April.  That gives me two months to try to learn something about it.  I plan to get a CD of it and study it so I know the story in English and Italian by the time I go.  Why?  For centuries some people have been in love with opera.  I never have been one of those people.  So I must be missing something in my life.  I just want to see if I can find the beauty in this that so many others have.  This may be one of those ‘bucket list’ things but that's ok.

 

Most of you know that I had a number of procedures and very serious cardiovascular surgeries in 2003, my first quit year – and they are documented in this journal.  Last year I tried to get a diagnosis on the lower back and hip pain I have had for several years.  I got seriouos about it and went to surgeons, went through numerous diagnostic tests, and kept pushing to get some answers.  At the end of last year I was told I was an enigma.  The orthopedic surgeons, pain specialists and spinal surgeons agreed I had real pain but could not find anything they could fix with confidence through surgery to reduce the pain.  Their conclusion was that I should look into vascular causes for these pains.

 

Last Monday I had my semi-annual cardiovascular checkup and brought these findings to my cardiologist’s attention.  Fortunately my heart and all its bypasses and its mechanical valve are working well.  But they did find decreased blood flow to one leg, which could cause back pain.  So next Thu I will have an exploratory arteriogram of my legs and the arteries leading to them to check for blockages.  That is a pretty simple procedure that I have had done before a couple of times.  It is possible they will put in stents or balloons.  I will go in early morning (5:30am) and depending what the outcome is leave the hospital late afternoon or the next day.  I will be so happy if they are able to find the cause and fix it.  I don’t like being an enigma. 

 

I hope you never have a similar story.  These circulation problems associated with blood flow to everything but your heart (head, arms and legs) are called peripheral vascular diseases.  These diseases occur more frequently as we age, but much frequently and sooner if you are a smoker or former smoker.

 

So if you haven’t quit yet please do as soon as possible.  Going through smoking related diseases puts a lot of questions in whatever future plans you may have…

 

 ---  Gandalf

 

 

Message by peter d  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 2:20 pm 
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hi gandalf--nice to meet you.

i applaud your quest to gain perspective of the opera--funny thing about the opera, based on my experiance through the years you will love it or you will not love it. if it touches your soul, it won't matter if you understand a word, or if you know the story. i was able to introduce a few foks to the opera in my lifetime, and i was always amazed at how surprised i was by reactions---lots of time not what i expected.

my hope is that it does in fact touch your soul--it will be a wonderful addition to your lfie.


quit date--Dec 26, 2007
hold on tight to your dream,,,,

Message by beststarmom  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 2:38 pm 
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wow glad to hear your tubes are lasting. I wrote my dad has n-stage arterial failure. He failed to quit when he got the tubes put in. His are plugged again, weak pulse to legs as well. Only problem with him is because he is so high risk the surgeons won't touch him. Poor man is in pain every day and he could have done something about it by quitting when doctors told him to.
KTQ
Lucille Q/D 11/10/2006

Message by Puffy  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 2:48 pm 
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I'm an enigma too.

But, I'd prefer to be an enigma about ANYTHING but something medical dang it.

I hope they figure it all out for you my  friend. as for Opera?

I plead the fifth *Wink


Never stop trying!

Message by Crys  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 2:48 pm 
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Happy Birthday sugar!!!  To be honest...  Tickets to La Boheme would not be my first choice for a birthday gift, but I certainly admire your reasons. 

I'm glad that you're no longer an enigma.  :)


Crys

Life dances and you have to dance with it...whether it is taking you on a wonderful ride, or is stepping on your toes.

Message by Sweetbabe  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 2:59 pm 
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You are still an inspiration Gandalf.  Viewer's Choice.  More of the side effects of smoking we all know about but don't want to think about.  Hope everything turns out okay.

Happy Lunaversary!


Beth

Message by Desert Chic  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 4:46 pm 
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I agree with Sweet babe...you are an inspiration.  Thanks for the reminders.  And, happy birthday!
I'd rather be an ex smoker with the occasional desire to smoke than be a smoker with the constant desire to stop doing it.
QD 12/3/2007

Message by Charly  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 5:13 pm 
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Birthday AND lunaversary? Congratulations on both! Only 60?!!
Charlene

aka 4Health/MarksMom - QD 4-20-03 Smoking kills!          

Message by coach  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 5:23 pm 
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Always something new to try. I hope you enjoy the experience.
I also hope they solve the pain puzzle. That can be so frustrating.

coach

Message by joliej  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 5:23 pm 
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happy birthday gandalf.  thanks for the warnings.  we need to remind ourselves that it is not just lungs that are affected by smoking.  so many other bad results lurk as well.  something else to put in my bag of tricks when i decide to start bugging the hubs to quit!
jolie
...every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.

Message by pinkjazzy789  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 6:23 pm 
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Happy
Birthday

 


Love, Lindsey

Message by Babs  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 6:52 pm 
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Happy Birthday !  The best I can say is ... You are aging well!

I love opera!  I really don't need to know what they are saying because I can feel what it is. 

opera.gif Opera Singer image by ismellmusic 

Can't wait to hear more about this. LOL!


Not One Puff Ever and
Keep a Sense of Humor.
Babs ~


Message by Joppette  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 7:09 pm 
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I wish you the best with this.  My Mom had four bypass surgeries to her legs due to PAD.  She smoked 4 packs a day through everyone of the surgeries.  She quit smoking when they told her that they were going to amputate her legs.  Sad, sad, sad.  But you quit a long time ago, so your outcome should be much better! 

Happy birthday, Happy 64 Months!  Happy Happy!

Judy


Judy

2007 lung cancer dx, and by the Grace of God, I beat it for now.
QD: 12/3/2004

Message by Missdaphne  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 9:02 pm 
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You picked one beautiful opera to start with.  You are going to love it.
"Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon." Don't know who said it first but I like it.

Message by Jeremiah  View Journal on February 20 2008 at 9:23 pm 
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 Happy Six Dime's my friend!! I can do classical music but I can't do opera..Tried it once and it's not my cup of tea...Can't do rap or hip-hop either..No connection..Anything else I'm okay with!! I got you in my thought's!!

(I know the add on seem's mute but hey..You are an All-Star/Pro-Bowler and well you know!!)

 

 


Together
Everyone
Accomplishes
More..

Puto in vestri (Believe in yourself)
               4/19/07

Message by Kat_fairykats  View Journal on February 21 2008 at 12:09 am 
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I hope with all my heart that they find the source of your pain and can fix it pronto. Chronic pain is no fun. Hugs Gandalf.

Happy belated special 6 dimes. Your enthusiasm about doing something new can teach us all a thing or two! Let us know what you think of the opera :)


"When you quit, your forevers will come to you."

Message by Scout  View Journal on February 21 2008 at 1:03 am 
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Happy birthday, Gandy!

You spring chicken, you! (I'll break out the violin at age 90.)

Enjoy those dimes!



Scout; QD 5/17/05

Message by Vlinder  View Journal on February 21 2008 at 4:44 am 
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Happy Birthday Dave...time flies for babyboomers, right?

La Bohème is a real tearjerker... but I doubt it's the kind of opera for you, you are more the Aïda or Nabucco type.......lololol.

Hope they find what the problems causes in your leg. Keep us updated and Good Luck!

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Elenor

Message by sweetp  View Journal on February 21 2008 at 10:55 am 
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Hi Gandalf...Do you know that being 60 is really the new 40....??? I saw this somewhere...you will have to let me know if it is true...lol....

Please keep us posted on your procedure next week....this post hit a "nerve"...I too have suffered from one Hip pain and lower back for many, many years...kinda found I was an enigma too...I do hope you get relief...because I know this pain can be like a gnawing constant ache...

Gotcha in my Thoughts and Prayers...!


Hugs Colleen
"Today I choose not to smoke..."


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